White guy gets defensive...

This particular guy and I actually had a halfway decent message exchange, but lately I haven't been feeling the online dating scene too much for a variety of reasons, so I didn't respond for about a week, which prompted the following exchange:

He said: are you not into white guys?

I said: Actually, my dating history indicates otherwise, but I'm curious...what would make you think that's the problem?

He said: There is no problem here Rika. I'm just asking you why you didn't respond to me. Some people write and tell why they are not interested and some people don't. I figure by now I would not get a response from you. So, I wondered why you never felt inclined to further comunicate with me.


I'm feeling difficult. I think I will make the point that he didn't ask the correct question if that was the case. I'm not sure why, but for some reason arguing feels like more fun then actually looking for a date.

White guys...

I've been quite busy lately and I haven't felt much like match.com-ing leaving a few men waiting...3 of those men have waiting varying amounts of time to send an additional message essentially saying, "What, you don't like white guys?" The reality is that I almost exclusively date white guys, but that's beside the point. Why do all these men automatically assume it's their skin color that's the problem as opposed to say their poor grammar or their lack of anything even remotely interesting to say or their butt ugly face? I think I may pose this question to one or two of them. Stay tuned...this could get interesting.

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A man named Elvis just emailed me. How could I ever date someone seriously named Elvis? He should get a name change. 

Updates

So I realized we have been bad at blogging.

Update times.

So cocky dude ended up texting me which I thought was kind of weird, and we tentatively scheduled a second date. Then he friend requested me on facebook....everything seemed normal...until one status update.

For those of you who havent heard (and I'm pretty sure we only have one follower...) a kid at Rutgers killed himself recently because his roommate videotaped and broadcasted a sexual encounter on the internet. Super sad. So cocky dudes status update is "I'm not the biggest fan of homosexual lifestyle choices, but I hope that this poor Rutgers kid finds peace and acceptance wherever he is now. It's a shame that in the world today he felt he couldn't talk to anybody."


ARE YOU KIDDING ME? The reason some gay people feel like they're doing something wrong is because of assholes like you. There is no way I am going out with him again. Come on, dude. For some reason it still surprises me when people my age are against gay marriage. Also assholes, pretty sure they dont "choose" to be gay. Get the fuck over it dude.


Also, I just scheduled two dates for Friday. Oops.